In "Frankenstein", the monster says "I came to life full of goodwill and freindship for every living creature." What made him change?

It is the insensitivity of mankind and the abandonment at the hands of the creator that makes the monster change.  There are many steps to the epiphany the monster has.  First, he observes the De Lacey's, and is happy to see them loving and caring for each other.  However, he craves the same companionship and realizes, in his reflection, how different he is.

Then, he reads some of the books in the De Lacey's shed, including Paradist Lost.  In this book, he learns of God's rejection of Satan, and God's punishment for Adam and Eve.  When he subsequently finds Victor's journal, the monster first learns that he himself was abandoned, and he is filled with anger.

Then, when he enters the De Lacey's house, to first be welcomed by the old man but then rejected by the family who can fully see him, the monster fully understands his isolation, and vows revenge.

Here are his own words on the matter when he meets up with Victor: 

 “All men hate the wretched; how, then, must I be hated, who am miserable beyond all living things! Yet you, my creator, detest and spurn me, thy creature, to whom thou art bound by ties only dissoluble by the annihilation of one of us. You purpose to kill me. How dare you sport thus with life?"